Jeremiah 1:5 makes it clear—God knew us before birth and set us apart for His purpose. We may have our own plans, but Proverbs 19:21 reminds us that only God’s purpose stands. When we try to build apart from Him, we waste effort. “Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it” (Psalm 127:1). The “house” is more than a building—it represents family, legacy, and future.

Psalm 127:3–5 calls children a heritage and a reward. They are arrows—full of potential, but needing shaping, sharpening, and direction. Parents are God’s chosen hands to mold them with wisdom, discipline, and instruction. When neglected, arrows miss their target and can cause harm, but when guided, they bring honor and strength to the family.

Culture often tries to redefine identity and distract the next generation, but God’s Word calls parents to raise children in the fear and knowledge of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). The goal is to release them as arrows—confident, equipped, and aimed toward God’s purpose. When children are raised in God’s order, they become leaders who stand at the gates of influence and defend the faith with boldness.